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Threshold - Fall 2003
Spotlight on Golden Jubilarians
In the summer of 2002, there were two golden jubilee celebrations which
included a total of fourteen jubilarians. Each of the past three issues
of Threshold have featured some of them and the profiles are completed
with this installment.
Sister Rosemary Bertels
“
My mother told me that, no matter what my ability to do something, ‘You
have the ability to like whatever you’re doing.’” Sister
Rosemary (formerly Sister Mary Albert) has always taken that advice to
heart.
She wasn’t sure about the religious life at first, but knew that
it was a choice she had to make. “When the Lord is calling, it’s
going to get you. I struggled with the choice but, once I made it, it
wasn’t a struggle to stay.”
Sister Rosemary was taught by Benedictines in Nortonville, Kansas, and
was particularly touched by the example of her eighth grade teacher,
Sister Mary Julian O’Neil. She was already finding that helping
with the classroom and sacristy tasks were a way of showing care for
the place and building relationships. Although the teachers as role models
for her generation were important, “The sisters are present in
so many ways in the parish and in other fields. I suspect that if someone
has a vocation, they’ll find the role models they need. We are
visible in so many new places where we weren’t before.”
Sister Rosemary herself has been visible in diverse ways. After 24 years
of teaching, she has worked in various administrative positions in the
monastery, Benedictine College and Conference Center. The secret of successful
administration for her is not merely her ability to organize, but the
willingness to be part of a team. She believes that one should not just
give orders, but get in and do the work.
Her own hard work is evident in many ways around the monastery. She adds
little touches of beauty such as plants or things she has sewn or upholstered.
She claims not to be an artist herself, just the one who gets the plants
or chapel decorations or grounds ready for others to finish or arrange.
Nevertheless, making such beauty available is a gift as well.
In her latest appointment as building manager for the ministries in Feeney
Memorial, she will be able to put her abundant energy to good use. She
loves staying active and sees it as one of her greatest gifts. “God
gave me my good health, and many talents, and gifts are to be used. That’s
the best way to show gratitude to God.”
Sister Mary Benedict Jacobs
Sister Mary Benedict literally grew up in the monastery. An Atchison
native, she was often at the Mount visiting her aunt, Sister Geraldine
Jacobs. In the summer, she and other local children were brought to the
college classrooms to be the experimental group for those taking courses
in methods of teaching.
“
Everyone thought I should be interested in music like my aunt, but it
was the art classes I loved most.” The arts were always valued
in her home. There was music and the children got drawing materials instead
of coloring books. Her mother has learned china painting and other crafts
in the Academy. She has continued to enjoy crafts and is especially known
for the seasonal decorations she creates for the monastery dining room
tables.
After attending the Mount Academy, it was another short trip (at least
geographically) to the monastery. “I belonged to St. Benedict’s
parish, had Benedictine teachers all through school and even got the
name of Benedict.” Like Sister Rosemary, she admits that the customs
and schedule in the Academy also made life in the novitiate feel familiar.
She was grateful for the support that came from having such a large novitiate
class and thinks it was a blessing.
After some years of teaching, she was called upon to go into health care
as an LPN and as a physical therapy assistant. The care of the aged and
infirm sisters has placed her in the heart of the community and given
witness to her patient caring and easy manner of service.
She recently became head of the monastery’s housekeeping department.
The relationship with the several lay employees has been a stimulating
new dimension to her life. The most important thing for her is that there
be an environment of respect. “Our values show through to them
and, when they see how we respect each other and them, they act that
way too.”
It has been a life full of unexpected turns for her. The world, her career,
religious life, have become different in ways she may mot have imagined.
Through many changes, Sister Mary Benedict prescribes “flexibility,
a sense of humor, and sticking with it. God’s grace is in it all.”
Sister Joan Offenburger
It’s a long way from New Jersey to Atchison, but Sister
Joan (formerly
Paulette) found her way here for college and “fell in love with
the place. I couldn’t imagine living anywhere else.”
She found more of the kindness, earthy realness, and humility which she
had loved in the Benedictine sisters of Elizabeth, N.J., who were her
early teachers. Her youthful interest in a research biology career was
abandoned in favor of the fields of English and library science. “I
realized that I wanted to teach. The person who learns most when teaching
is the teacher.”
While still having a great appreciation for science, her passion is for
words. “We use words in many ways, but the most exciting way is
when we try to say what can’t be said.” She places poetry
in this category and finds it especially wonderful that the Benedictine
praying of psalms is prayer by poetry. Poetry gets closest in its attempt
to get through the veil.
In addition to loving other’s words, she shares her own. Her great
love of storytelling, formed in the table narratives at her grandmother’s
home, shows in her affectionate descriptions of the sisters. It is she
who writes the obituary notices and memorial cards for the community,
as well as her own poetry.
The down-to-earth spirit which she especially appreciates in others is
evident in her own life. “Next to my religious profession, one
of the most important years was the one I spent at Shalom House, a homeless
shelter.”
She speaks lovingly of the sisters on her early missions who fed the
hungry at the door, of the importance of friendship and forgiveness in
her life and of appreciation of the community for the gifts of each sister. “Our
stories are the mortar that keeps us together. They are also the way
we incorporate new members and graft them into the same roots.” |